Ooooh that's the SPOT!!!

Over the years most people will experience several different toys. If they know that they like or have read this here blog then they know how to pick a really good toy for their body. Then they come across a toy that just curls their toes. This happened to me once. I knew I liked really good G-spotting toys. At that point in my life I was not a fan of hard toys like glass or acrylic but to be fair it was only because I hadn't really given them a chance. I was doing the radio show one night and one of the ladies from Babeland stopped by to show off some of the new toys that had out that month. (Side note: this was always my favorite interview of the month because it meant I got a bunch of new free sex toys!) On this particular month the Babeland lady had brought a toy called, the Lumina Wand! It was a beautiful acrylic toy that featured this lovely g-spot curve. It was a stunning pink color that made it look like a yummy lollypop. I took it home that night and gave it a try. Wowza!!! You'll understand why in a few minutes.

Needless to say it was my new favorite toy for the next month and until the next batch of sex toys. For years after that I would take it out and play with it often. Then I went to recommend it to a friend one day and they were no longer carrying it at Babeland. I was very sad but I decided I would keep my eyes out if I ever found another toy like it.

Guess what? About 2 weeks ago a brand new toy was added to the Love U Men's Catalog. The first thing I thought was this is the perfect replacement for my Lumina Wand. Allow me to introduce you to:

Spot On Glass Dildo (who names these things?)

Now, before I go on any further I want to share with you the description of this toy at the Dildo Whisperer Online Store:

"Let’s face it, some of our hottest spots are just around the next curve, be it your G-spot or your prostate. This lovely curved toy can help you reach for it. Keep a firm grip on one end, insert the toy one to two inches, with the tip pointed towards your navel - and you’re spot on. Rock your toy gently for a deep tissue massage and potential orgasmic response."


This gives you a good idea of how Spot On is used right? But let's talk about some of the aspects of Spot On that this description left out. First, Spot On is made of glass and we all know I am a fan of glass toys. They go in so smooth. You don't get the friction upon entry that you do say from a toy made out of silicone or rubber. Then there is the firmness factor. Hard toys work really well on g-spot and p-spot massages. The g-spot in particular like to be stroked with a little bit of pressure and hard toys make that much easier to do. But perhaps my favorite aspect of Spot On is the temperature play. I love the feeling of a cool toy entering my body. Glass warms up to your body temp very quickly so you get that sensation followed by the warmth of the toy after less then a minute. You can also warm up or cool down a glass toy by dipping it in a glass or warm or cool water before using it. Sensational! 


Materials: Glass
Lube: Love U Water or Love U Silicone
Cleaning: Soap and Water, Boilable, Dishwasher Safe
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars 


I plan on adding Spot On to my personal collection this month knowing I will love it just as much as my old Lumina Wand if not more! If you want to get a Spot On for your personal collection what are you waiting for? June is the perfect month to get a new toy because I am giving away a $150 free shopping spree to the Dildo Whisperer Store to one lucky customer this month! Don't wait get to buying yourself this lovely toy today! 

Valentine’s Day- A gift of good health for your guy- Part III

In addition to buying your man a good toy for Valentine’s Day wouldn’t you like to get him something that is good for his health as well? Listeners of my radio show have heard me talk about the benefits of the Prostate for sexually adventurous men. There are a number of toys designed to deliver a prostate massage and that brings me to my 3rd Valentine’s Day gift idea for the man in your life.

3. Prostate Massager
Think of the Prostate Gland at the G-Spot for men. Another name I use for it is the P-Spot. The prostate gland is a very sensitive and desirable area but it does require some extra care and attention. Prostate cancer is a real concern for many men and it is not an issue to take lightly. In addition to regular check-ups with your doctor you should consider other alternative for taking care of your prostate. The best way to do this is through a prostate massage. It is believed that prostate massage can actually reduce some of the health risks associated with the prostate such as prostatis and BPM. A good prostate massage can actually feel very good. In fact, the P-Spot is the reason why so many men enjoy anal sex. In recent years, more and more toy manufactures have started creating toys to help guys enjoy their P-Spot and here are just a few that you can find in the Dildo Whisperer Online Store.

Rude Boy

Rude Boy is a different kind of toy. This toy is made out of a high quality silicone and that makes it firm but with just the right amount of give. Once inserted the tip of this toy will be placed on or around the P-Spot while the fatter end with the nubs will rest on the taint. There is a small one-touch vibe that can be inserted into nubby end of the Rude Boy that will cause the whole toy to vibrate. This vibration will transmit up through the Rude Boy to your P-Spot and the nubby end will massage the taint. The curved shape is designed to rock back and forth to get the optimum pleasure. This is the perfect solo toy if you are single or if your partner has gone out of town!

Materials: Silicone

Hypoallergenic

Vibe: One Touch Chrome 80mm Bullet Vibe, Waterproof

Batteries: 1N 1.5 Volt (this is an environmentally friendly battery)

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Clean Vibe Separately with Soap and Water, Silicone portion is Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe.

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

P-Decadence

This is glass for your ass! As I have discussed in previous entries glass toys have lots of added benefits. You can quickly change their temperature with a dip in cool or warm water. It is firm and can be used to apply just the right amount of pressure to the prostate. Plus it has a smooth surface that slides right in. To use this toy you want to make sure you apply plenty of lube then insert the curved end in so it points toward your naval. Rocking it back and forth will massage your P-Spot. With the P-Decadence you really get a 2 for 1 deal because if you use the other end of this toy you will get an entirely different experience. The shape on this end of P-Decadence is similar to the shape of anal beads. Give it a try you won’t be disappointed.

Materials: Blue Pyrex Glass

Lube: Water or Silicone Based Recommended

Size: Length 8.5” Width 1.5”

Cleaning: Soap and Water, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars 

Prostate Health

Prostate Health is made out of high-grade silicone and has a very unique design. This flexible toy's crazy looking shape is actually designed to curve with the natural curves of the body. The bulbous head vibrates with the help of an insert able bullet vibe and teaches the man using this toy to relax while getting a gentle P-Spot massage. All of this will help reduce the risk of prostatis and BPM. Prostate Health also features a small thumb grip to help create a comfortable hold on the toy during use. Prostate Health will make your next trip to the doctor much more pleasant. So why not enjoy being healthy for a change?

Material: Silicone

Size: 4.5" Length 1" Diameter

Vibration: Optional (with Bullet Vibe)

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe

Accessories: Bullet Vibe (comes with it)

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

You can find all of these toys in the "For Him" section of the Dildo Whisperer Store. 

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

This glass is half full!

When I first heard they were making sex toys out of glass I was concerned. After all, glass can break and the last thing you want to have happen is your glass toy to break in or around your naughty bits! Luckily though these toys are not made of standard glass. They are made of Pyrex Glass.

You know the kind that made cook wear out of. This means that the glass is much stronger and will not break or chip easily at all in addition it is capable of enduring a high temperature changes. Not only are these toys safe but they also have a variety of added benefits.

Glass toys tend to look more like works of art then sex toys. The come in a variety of colors and designs. These toys are beautifully hand crafted and are often stunning to look at. Due to the fact that they are all uniquely hand crafted these toys tend to be on the higher end of the price scale but they can be well worth the money. Glass is a very smooth surface so these toys glide in and out with very little resistance. The firmness of the glass makes them perfect for G-Spot and P-spot Massage. But one of the coolest things about glass toys is that you can change the temperature of the toy easily for sensation play. I keep a cup with cold water and hot water next to the bed. A quick dip and the toys temperature quickly changes. I personally love the feel of a cool toy as it enters my body. Sensational!

Check out couple of the cool looking glass toys I have in on my online toy store.

Sapphire Swirl

Just look at that stunning cobalt blue color on the shaft of the Sapphire Swirl! I love the color but I love the sensation of all those little blue ribs even more. This toy really is ribbed for pleasure. The raised blue swirls create a wonderful sensation when used. The Sapphire Swirl features a nice flared base making it save for vaginal or anal play. It is 7.5" long with a 1.5" head and a 1.25" shaft. This toy can be cleaned using soap and water but is also dishwasher safe. I like to keep a small  finger nail scrub brush on hand for toys like this one because cleaning those little swirls can be a bit tricky. I find that a nail brush can get right in there are scrub them clean with ease.

Material: Pyrex Glass

Lube: Any type of lube can be used

Size: 7.5 long; 1.5" head; 1.25" shaft

Cleaning: Soap and Water, Dishwasher safe, Boilable, Bleachable, Use a small scrub brush for parts

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

LED Blue Swirl

The LED Blue Swirl is a beautiful toy to look at. It has a blue swirl pattern that runs up the shaft of this toy but that pattern serve more than one purpose. Not only is it pretty to look at but the glass is slightly raised in that area creating gentle ribs that feel great when using this toy. The LED Blue Swirl's head is 1.5" and the shaft is 1" meaning that this toy isn't overwhelming in size. Perhaps the coolest feature of this particular toy is the LED light function in the base of the toy that can beautifully light up its shaft. It slowly fades from blue to red and back again. Talk about a sexy night light!

Use care when cleaning this toy. Do not submerge into water or put in the dish washer. As with any toy with an electric function you must be careful not to get water into the battery compartment. I suggest using the Afterglow Wipes that can be found in the "Bath, Body and Wellness" section of my online toy store.

Material: Pyres Glass

Lube: Any Kind of Lube

Size: 1.5"head; 1" shaft

Batteries: Watch Batteries

Cleaning: Soap and water but Do Not submerge in water, or Use Afterglow Cleaning Wipes

Rating: *** 3 out of 5 Stars

Doggie Strap

It doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is everyone can enjoy a good session of doggy style sex. Straight folks love it, gay boys dig it and even the lesbians can get in on the action. Why do we like doggie style so much? Because it is the perfect position for G-spot (for the ladies) and P-spot (for the boys) stimulation! You see when the bottom has their ass up in the air and the top is lined up behind them often the toy or dick that is fucking them fucks at a slightly downward motion. This puts pressure and strokes across one of the most sensitive pleasure spots in our whole body. Which is why so many people enjoy the doggie position thusly making it one of the most popular sex positions around. So how can you improve upon something that is already pretty f'ing wonderful?

The Doggie Strap!

This little device was made by one of my favorite sex toy companies, Sportsheets. They make all kinds of wonderful beginner bondage stuff. But they also make some really practical sex positioning aids that will have you asking why you have never used them before. The Doggie Strap is a very simple but genius design. What you do is slide the padded middle section of the strap under the hips of the person being fucked. Then the top takes the loop handles on both side of the strap and places them over the wrist. The lengths of the straps are completely adjustable. Holding onto the straps you can then use this Doggie Strap to move the hips of the bottom in pretty much any way you desire. It gives the top a whole new level of control and also relieves the pressure off the knees of the bottom. If you have syncing issues with your partner this Doggie Strap will fix that problem right up. Plus, you will achieve deeper penetration all while stroking the G or P-Spot of your partner. Give it a try, trust me you won't regret it!

You can find the Doggie Strap in the "Positioning Aids" section of my online toy store.

Materials: Nylon Straps,

Size: Adjustable Straps

Cleaning: Machine Washable

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 stars

Prostate Health

If you ask any guy in the world he will tell you that he hates going in for his prostate check up. Listen, I get it. But let's face facts Prostate Cancer has been becoming more and more common. Which is why it is so important to make sure men are doing everything in their power to keep their prostate healthy. Unlike keeping healthy in other ways keeping your prostate in good working order can actually be a ton of fun! Women have a G-spot, which is often described as this magical spot inside their pussies that creates amazing orgasms. Well, most people don't realize that men have their own version of the G-spot. I like to call it the P-spot. The prostate gland is actually very sensitive and responds in a very desireable way to stimulation. What's even better is that a P-spot massage can lead to incredible orgasms as well as prostate health! Sounds like a pretty fair trade to me.

Now, that you know how to achive a good orgasm and prostate health you probably need help picking the right toy to reach this end. I'm going to make this easy on you.
Prostate Health (yep, that's the name of this toy)

Prostate Health is made out of high grade silicone and has a very unique design. This flexable toy's crazy looking shape is actually designed to curve with the natural curves of the body. The boulbous head vibrates with the help of an insertable bullet vibe and teaches the man using this toy to relax while getting a gentle P-Spot massage. All of this will help reduce the risk of prostatis and BPM. Prosate Health also features a small thumb grip to help create a comfortable hold on the toy during use. You will hear me say this many times but all toys that are intended to go in your ass MUST have a flared base and this toy has that. The flared base prevents the toy from traveling past your sphincter in an undesired way. A flared base is a REQUIREMENT for all anal plug type toys.

If you or the guy in your life needs a little Prosate Health go to my toy store and pick up one of these great toys. It is time to make that next prostate check up easier.

Material: silicone
Size: 4.5" length 1" diameter
Vibration: Optional (with Bullet Vibe)
Lube: Water based Lube (I like thicker lubes for anal sex like Maximus)
Cleaning: Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe
Accessories: Bullet Vibe (comes with it)
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars