Grab the Remote and Ride this Wave.

It seems like there are more and more toys coming out that feature remote controls. I love this concept for several reasons. First, it means you can actually look at the controls instead of just reaching down and trying to feel around for them. I really hate it when I am half way to my orgasm and I reach down to turn things up and end up turning things off! Let me tell you it ruins the mood. With a remote you can hold in your hand you never have to make such a terrible mistake because you will actually be able to see which buttons you are pushing. The second thing I like about remote controlled toys is the fun you can have with a partner that is in control of your remote. Imagine being across the room and controlling the vibration and toy play of your partner. Talk about control! This takes sex play to a whole new level. Now what do you say dear DW reader, are you ready to try your hand with a remote?

Remote Body Wave

This is a classic dual action toy. The Remote Body Wave has an insertable vibrating shaft that is curved for G-Spot action. Plus, this toy has a wave like section designed to make your clit hum! It is very similar design to the Rabbit Habit. The Remote Body Wave features 6 different functions of speed and pulsation that will have you riding the wave of pleasure for a good long time. The controls are easy to understand and this toy has a lighted display so you can see what you are doing even in the dark. It also has a one touch OFF button. This comes in handy for those times you get off and just can't take another second of stimulation. Hit one button and it all shuts down. You will notice that the Remote Body Wave has controls on the toy itself in addition to the remote control. That way you can still use this toy even if you misplace the remote. Speaking of the remote this baby works up to 20 feet away so you have lots of options when playing with it. Hold it in your free hand to control the toy during masturbation or when your partner has it inside you. Or you could give it to your partner and they can sit in the corner and watch you get off from a distance. Use your imagination and have fun! The Remote Body Wave is made of a safe TPR rubber that is free from Phthalates. So you know it is safe for your body. The total length of this toy is 9.5" but only about 4.5" of it is actually insertable. The diameter is 1.5" and the head of this toy has a nice rounded shape that will feel really great on your G-Spot. This bad boy needs one  9V Battery for the remote and 3 AAA batteries for the toy itself. When cleaning this toy you want to make sure that you don't get any water near or around the battery compartment. Getting water in this area will ruin the toy. I suggest the Afterglow Wipes to make cleaning up easier. In terms of lube you want to stick with something water based like the Love U Water Lubricant. The Remote Body Wave is a really fun and functional toy. You can use it alone or with a partner and will have lots of fun either way. If you are looking for the new way to play give the Remote Body Wave a try! You can find this toy in the "Toys" section of the Dildo Whisperer's online store.

Materials: TPR Rubber
Phthalate free
Size: Length 9.5" Diameter 1.5"
Vibration: 6 functions of Speed and Pulsation
Lube: Water Based Recommended
Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Soap and Water (Avoid getting in or around battery compartment)
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Valentine's Day- Stroke This! A gift for your guy -Part IV

Men Masturbate. The average guy jacks off at least once a day and some guys spend even more time getting off. That’s a lot of time to spend with a bottle of lube and your hand. Let’s face it day after day of the same thing will get pretty damn boring. I know there are a ton of great products out there for guys to use to get off. You can get a fake rubber face and fuck it. Or perhaps a pair of cyber skin feet to stroke your cock with? But that seems kind of complicated doesn’t it? For Valentine’s Day this year I want you to get the guy in your life a way to improve his jack off sessions without making them overly complicated. No one wants to spend tons of time cleaning up after getting off so for that reason I came up with my fourth toy suggestion to take the work and doldrums out of jacking off.

4. THE STROKER!!
These easy to use toys will take jacking off to a whole new level. Gone are the days of switching hands to create a new feel to jacking off. All you need is lube and a stroker and you are all set. Strokers are designed to be simple to use and easy to clean. If you haven't ever tried a stroker then it is time you do!




Stroker X

Different strokers have different capabilities. In the case of Stroker X you get a sensation that is very similar to the sensation that you get when your partner is having muscle contractions around the shaft of your cock. The interior of Stroker X has a series of soft ridges that will feel great on your shaft as you stroke it. This toy is made out of silicone and will not stretch in the same fashion as some of the other strokers I am about to review. Silicone is a slightly more firm material which makes you feel like you are actually holding onto something when you use this toy. Silicone is built to last so unlike some of the other strokers with the right amount of care Storker X will keep you happy for a good long time. The exterior of this toy is smooth and easy to grip as long as you don’t have a bunch of lube on your hands. I recommend pumping the lube directly into the stroker and then inserting your penis to avoid getting any on the outside.


Material: Silicone


Lube: Water Based Recommended


Cleaning: Turn inside Out and Wash with Soap and Water, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe (top Rack)


Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars


Side Kick

I didn’t know much about the Side Kick stroker until Ducky Doolittle gave me a demo of this toy in my radio studio one night. She pulled out the VIP dildo and said, “Watch this.” She lubed up the inside of the Side Kick and started stroking the dildo. As she did it she explained to me some of the features of the toy.


“Did you know that Side Kick has a ribbed interior for a nice textured sensation? And that you can flip inside out and use the smooth side for a totally different sensation?”


I stared at her hands moving up and down the shaft of VIP thinking about how good what she was doing must feel on a real guy. And then she started to speed up.
“Now, check this out,” she quipped. “Just about the time the guy is ready to come you hold onto the base of the Side Kick just at the base of his penis. Then with you other hand you pull the top portion over the tip of his cock!”


Her hands did just that. Just then her little demo all made sense. I knew what she was trying to show me. She created a vacuum inside the toy that when pulled over the tip created a sucking sensation.
In her sweetest voice she exclaimed, “You can literally swallow without actually having to do it!”


Now, I don’t know about you but I don’t know of many toys out there that can create the sensation of getting a blow job and having your partner swallow but Side Kick can do just that! Need I say more? I think not.


Material: TPR (Thermal Produced Rubber) Phthalate Free


Lube: Water Based Recommended


Cleaning: Turn inside Out and Wash with Soap and Water


Rating: ***** 5 out of 5 Stars


Reversible Stroker

The Reversible Stroker is made out of a cyber skin material to help create the feel of real skin. So when you slip this bad boy on your cock, be prepared for a very soft life like sensation. They call this toy the Reversible Stroker because one side features ridges while the other side features nubs. This toy is easy to turn inside out so you can pick the sensation you want at any time. It is like getting two toys in one. Cyber skin is a very neat and unique material. It is water proof and can be used in the shower or the hot tub. The only thing to keep in mind is that the cleaning of this toy requires a little special care. Make sure you wash it with soap and water and then let it completely air dry (inside and out). If it starts to get a tacky feel to it then put in a zip lock back with a little corn starch. Shake it up and then shake it off the excess.


Material: Cyber Skin
Lube: Water Based Recommended


Cleaning: Turn inside out and Wash with Soap and Water. Use corn starch if it gets “tacky”.


Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

All of these strokers can be found in the "For Him" section of the Dildo Whisperer's Online Store.


If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

Get into the Rabbit Habit.

The Rabbit toy has been around for a good many years but it didn't really get popular until the infamous "The Turtle and the Hare " episode of Sex and the City. In the episode Charlotte is introduced to a sex toy called, "The Rabbit." What happens next is frankly what happens to many women who enjoy this toy for the first time. She locked herself in her bedroom and didn't want to come out. She simply couldn't stop herself from enjoying all the pleasure the Rabbit was delivering. 

When I first moved to NYC like Charlotte I was frustrated with dating and living single in the big city. So when I saw this episode of Sex and the City like many other women in the country I rushed out to find myself one of these amazing Rabbit toys. I spent what felt like a fortune ($179) on a toy called the iRabbit. It was purple beauty and I rushed right home to take it for a test ride. From sensation stand point the iRabbit was awesome! It delivered on its promise to be an incredible toy. Functionality aside there are a good many aspects of this toy that fell far below my expectations. I wish that I had been the Dildo Whisperer then that I am today. I would have known what pit falls to avoid and the difference between a great quality toy and a very expensive knock off. 

The design of nearly every Rabbit toy out there is the same. There is a shaft that twirls around in a small circular fashion and inside it are a number of "pearls" that rotate around the shaft to create G-Spot stimulation. Then attached to the base of the shaft there is a bullet vibe that is shaped like a rabbit. The ears are designed to reach up and tickle the clit. This toy has lots of moving parts so it isn't what I would call a silent toy but when it is doing its thing you won't care that it is louder then your other toys. It is designed to blow your mind and it delivers. The handle is often the battery compartment and has either a number of buttons or slide fader like controls. The shaft and the rabbit bullet vibe have separate controls for independent use. Run the Rabbit fast and the shaft slow or whatever feels right for you.

         

Not all Rabbits are created equal! Most are made out of jelly rubber and this low quality type of rubber is  just one of the problems I ran into with my first Rabbit. Jelly rubber often is porous which means that after time bacteria can grow inside it. Plus, many of these low quality rubbers can contain chemicals called Pthalates that are thought to be harmful. Then there is the matter of the "pearls" that are inside the shaft of the Rabbit. There are a lot of parts and motors in this toy and that means that it is more prone to breaking. In the case of the "pearls" inside the rabbit they have a tendency to get jammed. Not something you want to have happen while they are rolling across your G-Spot. Then there is the issue of the battery compartment. This is the one thing about my iRabbit that made me the most insane. Due to the fact that the battery compartment is also the handle one would think that the compartment would be designed to stay closed when handled. That was not the case with my iRabbit. Every time I was getting into my grove the damn battery would come off and the batteries would pop out. It made me crazy! Eventually, I just duct taped the damn thing on. 

Luckily, for you my lovely readers there is one company that finally worked out all the kinks in the Rabbit design so you won't run into the same problems I  did. I'd like to introduce you to the toy that O Magazine calls the "Rolls Royce of sex toys." 

The Rabbit Habit

So what makes Rabbit Habit different? Let's start with the materials used in this toy. The Rabbit Habit is made with a rubber called TPR. This rubber doesn't contain of the harmful chemicals that many of the other rabbit toys do. The "pearls"in the Rabbit Habit are designed in a way so they won't jam during use.  This will make your G-Spot much happier!  The controls on the Rabbit Habit are a fader design which means you don't have to get confused on which button to push while you are trying to enjoy yourself. I might have had this problem with the other designs. The Rabbit Habit runs on 3 AA batteries in a compartment that doesn't just pop open when handled. Plus, it comes in my favorite color, Purple! I have tried a dozen or so different rabbit toys over the years and this one has to be the top of the list. Let me put it this way dear readers. The Rabbit Habit is the only rabbit toy still in my personal toy box.

You can check it out for yourself in the "Toys" section of my online toy store.

Materials: TPR Rubber (pthalate free)

Size: 9" length 1.5" diameter

Vibration: 2 types (Shaft and Clitoral) both have variable speeds

Batteries: 3 AA

Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Soap and water (DO NOT submerge in water and be careful of moving parts)

Lube: Water based lube

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars