Valentine's Day- Stroke This! A gift for your guy -Part IV

Men Masturbate. The average guy jacks off at least once a day and some guys spend even more time getting off. That’s a lot of time to spend with a bottle of lube and your hand. Let’s face it day after day of the same thing will get pretty damn boring. I know there are a ton of great products out there for guys to use to get off. You can get a fake rubber face and fuck it. Or perhaps a pair of cyber skin feet to stroke your cock with? But that seems kind of complicated doesn’t it? For Valentine’s Day this year I want you to get the guy in your life a way to improve his jack off sessions without making them overly complicated. No one wants to spend tons of time cleaning up after getting off so for that reason I came up with my fourth toy suggestion to take the work and doldrums out of jacking off.

4. THE STROKER!!
These easy to use toys will take jacking off to a whole new level. Gone are the days of switching hands to create a new feel to jacking off. All you need is lube and a stroker and you are all set. Strokers are designed to be simple to use and easy to clean. If you haven't ever tried a stroker then it is time you do!




Stroker X

Different strokers have different capabilities. In the case of Stroker X you get a sensation that is very similar to the sensation that you get when your partner is having muscle contractions around the shaft of your cock. The interior of Stroker X has a series of soft ridges that will feel great on your shaft as you stroke it. This toy is made out of silicone and will not stretch in the same fashion as some of the other strokers I am about to review. Silicone is a slightly more firm material which makes you feel like you are actually holding onto something when you use this toy. Silicone is built to last so unlike some of the other strokers with the right amount of care Storker X will keep you happy for a good long time. The exterior of this toy is smooth and easy to grip as long as you don’t have a bunch of lube on your hands. I recommend pumping the lube directly into the stroker and then inserting your penis to avoid getting any on the outside.


Material: Silicone


Lube: Water Based Recommended


Cleaning: Turn inside Out and Wash with Soap and Water, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe (top Rack)


Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars


Side Kick

I didn’t know much about the Side Kick stroker until Ducky Doolittle gave me a demo of this toy in my radio studio one night. She pulled out the VIP dildo and said, “Watch this.” She lubed up the inside of the Side Kick and started stroking the dildo. As she did it she explained to me some of the features of the toy.


“Did you know that Side Kick has a ribbed interior for a nice textured sensation? And that you can flip inside out and use the smooth side for a totally different sensation?”


I stared at her hands moving up and down the shaft of VIP thinking about how good what she was doing must feel on a real guy. And then she started to speed up.
“Now, check this out,” she quipped. “Just about the time the guy is ready to come you hold onto the base of the Side Kick just at the base of his penis. Then with you other hand you pull the top portion over the tip of his cock!”


Her hands did just that. Just then her little demo all made sense. I knew what she was trying to show me. She created a vacuum inside the toy that when pulled over the tip created a sucking sensation.
In her sweetest voice she exclaimed, “You can literally swallow without actually having to do it!”


Now, I don’t know about you but I don’t know of many toys out there that can create the sensation of getting a blow job and having your partner swallow but Side Kick can do just that! Need I say more? I think not.


Material: TPR (Thermal Produced Rubber) Phthalate Free


Lube: Water Based Recommended


Cleaning: Turn inside Out and Wash with Soap and Water


Rating: ***** 5 out of 5 Stars


Reversible Stroker

The Reversible Stroker is made out of a cyber skin material to help create the feel of real skin. So when you slip this bad boy on your cock, be prepared for a very soft life like sensation. They call this toy the Reversible Stroker because one side features ridges while the other side features nubs. This toy is easy to turn inside out so you can pick the sensation you want at any time. It is like getting two toys in one. Cyber skin is a very neat and unique material. It is water proof and can be used in the shower or the hot tub. The only thing to keep in mind is that the cleaning of this toy requires a little special care. Make sure you wash it with soap and water and then let it completely air dry (inside and out). If it starts to get a tacky feel to it then put in a zip lock back with a little corn starch. Shake it up and then shake it off the excess.


Material: Cyber Skin
Lube: Water Based Recommended


Cleaning: Turn inside out and Wash with Soap and Water. Use corn starch if it gets “tacky”.


Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

All of these strokers can be found in the "For Him" section of the Dildo Whisperer's Online Store.


If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

Valentine’s Day- A gift of good health for your guy- Part III

In addition to buying your man a good toy for Valentine’s Day wouldn’t you like to get him something that is good for his health as well? Listeners of my radio show have heard me talk about the benefits of the Prostate for sexually adventurous men. There are a number of toys designed to deliver a prostate massage and that brings me to my 3rd Valentine’s Day gift idea for the man in your life.

3. Prostate Massager
Think of the Prostate Gland at the G-Spot for men. Another name I use for it is the P-Spot. The prostate gland is a very sensitive and desirable area but it does require some extra care and attention. Prostate cancer is a real concern for many men and it is not an issue to take lightly. In addition to regular check-ups with your doctor you should consider other alternative for taking care of your prostate. The best way to do this is through a prostate massage. It is believed that prostate massage can actually reduce some of the health risks associated with the prostate such as prostatis and BPM. A good prostate massage can actually feel very good. In fact, the P-Spot is the reason why so many men enjoy anal sex. In recent years, more and more toy manufactures have started creating toys to help guys enjoy their P-Spot and here are just a few that you can find in the Dildo Whisperer Online Store.

Rude Boy

Rude Boy is a different kind of toy. This toy is made out of a high quality silicone and that makes it firm but with just the right amount of give. Once inserted the tip of this toy will be placed on or around the P-Spot while the fatter end with the nubs will rest on the taint. There is a small one-touch vibe that can be inserted into nubby end of the Rude Boy that will cause the whole toy to vibrate. This vibration will transmit up through the Rude Boy to your P-Spot and the nubby end will massage the taint. The curved shape is designed to rock back and forth to get the optimum pleasure. This is the perfect solo toy if you are single or if your partner has gone out of town!

Materials: Silicone

Hypoallergenic

Vibe: One Touch Chrome 80mm Bullet Vibe, Waterproof

Batteries: 1N 1.5 Volt (this is an environmentally friendly battery)

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Clean Vibe Separately with Soap and Water, Silicone portion is Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe.

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

P-Decadence

This is glass for your ass! As I have discussed in previous entries glass toys have lots of added benefits. You can quickly change their temperature with a dip in cool or warm water. It is firm and can be used to apply just the right amount of pressure to the prostate. Plus it has a smooth surface that slides right in. To use this toy you want to make sure you apply plenty of lube then insert the curved end in so it points toward your naval. Rocking it back and forth will massage your P-Spot. With the P-Decadence you really get a 2 for 1 deal because if you use the other end of this toy you will get an entirely different experience. The shape on this end of P-Decadence is similar to the shape of anal beads. Give it a try you won’t be disappointed.

Materials: Blue Pyrex Glass

Lube: Water or Silicone Based Recommended

Size: Length 8.5” Width 1.5”

Cleaning: Soap and Water, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars 

Prostate Health

Prostate Health is made out of high-grade silicone and has a very unique design. This flexible toy's crazy looking shape is actually designed to curve with the natural curves of the body. The bulbous head vibrates with the help of an insert able bullet vibe and teaches the man using this toy to relax while getting a gentle P-Spot massage. All of this will help reduce the risk of prostatis and BPM. Prostate Health also features a small thumb grip to help create a comfortable hold on the toy during use. Prostate Health will make your next trip to the doctor much more pleasant. So why not enjoy being healthy for a change?

Material: Silicone

Size: 4.5" Length 1" Diameter

Vibration: Optional (with Bullet Vibe)

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe

Accessories: Bullet Vibe (comes with it)

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

You can find all of these toys in the "For Him" section of the Dildo Whisperer Store. 

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

Prostate Health

If you ask any guy in the world he will tell you that he hates going in for his prostate check up. Listen, I get it. But let's face facts Prostate Cancer has been becoming more and more common. Which is why it is so important to make sure men are doing everything in their power to keep their prostate healthy. Unlike keeping healthy in other ways keeping your prostate in good working order can actually be a ton of fun! Women have a G-spot, which is often described as this magical spot inside their pussies that creates amazing orgasms. Well, most people don't realize that men have their own version of the G-spot. I like to call it the P-spot. The prostate gland is actually very sensitive and responds in a very desireable way to stimulation. What's even better is that a P-spot massage can lead to incredible orgasms as well as prostate health! Sounds like a pretty fair trade to me.

Now, that you know how to achive a good orgasm and prostate health you probably need help picking the right toy to reach this end. I'm going to make this easy on you.
Prostate Health (yep, that's the name of this toy)

Prostate Health is made out of high grade silicone and has a very unique design. This flexable toy's crazy looking shape is actually designed to curve with the natural curves of the body. The boulbous head vibrates with the help of an insertable bullet vibe and teaches the man using this toy to relax while getting a gentle P-Spot massage. All of this will help reduce the risk of prostatis and BPM. Prosate Health also features a small thumb grip to help create a comfortable hold on the toy during use. You will hear me say this many times but all toys that are intended to go in your ass MUST have a flared base and this toy has that. The flared base prevents the toy from traveling past your sphincter in an undesired way. A flared base is a REQUIREMENT for all anal plug type toys.

If you or the guy in your life needs a little Prosate Health go to my toy store and pick up one of these great toys. It is time to make that next prostate check up easier.

Material: silicone
Size: 4.5" length 1" diameter
Vibration: Optional (with Bullet Vibe)
Lube: Water based Lube (I like thicker lubes for anal sex like Maximus)
Cleaning: Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe
Accessories: Bullet Vibe (comes with it)
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Love U Wand

Are you one of those people that just can't get enough power in your vibrator? For a good long time your only option was the Hitachi Magic Wand. A large "massager" that you had to plug into the wall to get the power you were seeking. But what do you do if you don't have an outlet next to your bed? Or if you want to have sex somewhere other than your bedroom...like outside? And what if you don't want a toy that big? Well, I now have the perfect alternative. The Love U Wand.

With all of the power of the Hitachi Wand this bad boy is half the size! No more plugging into the wall either. A small corded battery pack plugs into the base of the Love U Wand so you you have the freedom to take this toy anywhere. I wish this toy was rechargeable but I think that we will see that development in the future. Until then this is the best thing on the market.

This toy is designed to help women who need a good amount of direct clitoral stimulation and unlike the Hitachi Magic Wand the Love U Wand as variable speeds. Many of them! Gone are the days of OFF, FAST and SLOW as your only vibration options!

Did I mention that this toy has accessories? Oh yes, it does!


These wonderful Love U Wand Attachments will help make your G-Spot sing! They are made of silicone and slip over the head of the Love U Wand. They are designed to slip inside you while keeping the head of the Love U Wand snug up against your clit. Due to the fact that these attachments are made of silicone they will transmit the vibration really well right to your G-spot all the while still giving your clit a good work over. When you buy the these amazing little attachments at my store you will get both of them in as a package deal. The nubby one and the curved one will each create their own unique sensation.

If you are looking for a toy that packs a punch the Love U Wand is exactly what you are looking for! Buy the attachments and transform your new toy in unexpected ways!

Material: Hard Plastic, Silicone
Size: 8" long; Head Size 1.5" long cord attached to battery pack
Vibration: Variable (very strong vibe on High setting)
Lube: Water Based Lube Recommended
Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Do Not submerge into water (Attachments: Boilable, Bleachable Top Rack Dishwasher Safe)
Accessories: Love U Wand Attacments, AAA Batteries
Batteries: 6 AAA
Rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Echo!

Echo!

It didn't take me long to decide which toy in my new toy store that I wanted review first. I am going to start with my FAVORITE one! Echo. This toy is made by Tantus and is made out of silicone. Mine is a silver one but I am in love with the purple version in the toy store. I think I might have to just get that one as well. I am a G-spot girl and there are only a few toys that hit me in just the right spot. What I love about Echo is that this toy has a head that is on the larger size without being oversized. The head alone makes for a really nice sensation on the G-spot but what makes echo even more awesome is that the head shape is "echoed" down the shaft of this toy. As each of those bumps passes over the G-spot you will be begging for more! Want back door action? Well, I've used Echo there as well and had equally positive results! Given that this toy is made of silicone it has just the right level of give while still being firm enough to handle with ease. Echo has a nice flared base making it compatible for anal sex or with a harness.

Now, I have to talk about one little feature on Echo that I think is often over looked in other reviews. In the bottom of this toy there is a small hole. This was put there so you can insert a small battery powered bullet vibrator. There is a bullet vibe included with your Echo if you buy it at my toy store. Silicone transmits vibration really well so adding a bullet is always fun. However, I use this small hole in another way. I am often using my Echo alone and anyone that has handled a toy and lube at all that knows that things tend to get slippery and hard to hold onto. That is where this little hole comes in handy! I stick my finger in it and it creates a little suction that keeps it stuck on my finger. It makes it so easy to handle this toy and get it into just the right spot.


You can also put a suction cup attachment (available in the store) in that hole and use it in the shower or anywhere else you want to ride! When you are all done playing this toy is quick and easy to clean. Echo as been in my personal toy box for a good long time. Echo is a great basic toy that everyone should have in their personal collection. Even as more high tech toys have made their way into my life there is just nothing like the orgasm I get from my Echo.

Material: Silicone
Size: Length 6.5" Girth 1.5"
Vibration: (optional w bullet vibe)
Lube: Water Based recommended
Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Boil, Bleachable and Dishwasher safe
Accessories: Bullet Vibe, Suction Cup, Harness Compatible
Rating: 5 out 5 stars