Twist of Lime?

This is the Lime Double Bullet Vibe.

At first glance Lime looks like many of the other bullet vibes on the market today. The major difference being that this vibe is actually two bullet vibes. Double the pleasure? Hell, yes! The Lime Double Bullet Vibe offers up a diverse number of ways in which it can be used. You can hold one bullet in each hand and take turns placing them on different body parts. One for each nipple perhaps? Or you can use one on you and the other on your partner. But I think one of the best ways to use it is with one bullet on your favorite body part and one bullet in the base of your favorite Tantus toy.

For instance, I love Echo because it is the perfect G-spotting toy. But pair Echo with a good bullet vibe like the Lime and you have a whole new experience. Then add a second vibrating bullet for my clit and I just might be in heaven! There are so many different vibrating combinations you can put together that finding the right one for you will be half of the fun!


Now, that you understand the benefits of a vibe like the Lime Double Bullet Vibe let's talk about the specifics of this toy. Lime is made out of hard plastic that is made to feel velvety soft. Don't ask me how they do it because I don't know. The first time I felt this toy I asked if it was coated in silicone because the plastic feels so nice. When they designed this toy they were very smart in the way they set up the controls, a fact that should never go unnoticed. You slip your finger through the ring and click to sort through the 7 speed and pulsation functions. The most useful part is that silver circle on the face of Lime. It is the one push stop button. Just press there and the whole toy stops. Perfect for those seconds right after you reach orgasm and just can't take a second more.

The Lime Double Bullet Vibe is a corded vibe so you have to use extra care when cleaning this toy. In this case I recommend the Afterglow Wipes to avoid getting any water into the mechanical parts. Also, make sure you never pull the vibes out by their cords or you will risk breaking this toy.

I'm a fan of slipping vibes like this in condoms first if I am going to insert it that way I can remove it by pulling on the condom.

No matter how you slice it this Lime is a great little toy. It packs a nice punch and has lots of flexibility in the way it can be used. If you are looking for a little variety then look no further. The Lime Double Bullet Vibe is a great addition to any toy box.

Materials: Hard Plastic
Vibration: 7 functions of speed and pulsation
Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Use caution when cleaning around mechanical parts
Accessories: Pair with a Tantus toy that has a hole for a bullet in the bottom.
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation. 

Valentine’s Day- A gift of good health for your guy- Part III

In addition to buying your man a good toy for Valentine’s Day wouldn’t you like to get him something that is good for his health as well? Listeners of my radio show have heard me talk about the benefits of the Prostate for sexually adventurous men. There are a number of toys designed to deliver a prostate massage and that brings me to my 3rd Valentine’s Day gift idea for the man in your life.

3. Prostate Massager
Think of the Prostate Gland at the G-Spot for men. Another name I use for it is the P-Spot. The prostate gland is a very sensitive and desirable area but it does require some extra care and attention. Prostate cancer is a real concern for many men and it is not an issue to take lightly. In addition to regular check-ups with your doctor you should consider other alternative for taking care of your prostate. The best way to do this is through a prostate massage. It is believed that prostate massage can actually reduce some of the health risks associated with the prostate such as prostatis and BPM. A good prostate massage can actually feel very good. In fact, the P-Spot is the reason why so many men enjoy anal sex. In recent years, more and more toy manufactures have started creating toys to help guys enjoy their P-Spot and here are just a few that you can find in the Dildo Whisperer Online Store.

Rude Boy

Rude Boy is a different kind of toy. This toy is made out of a high quality silicone and that makes it firm but with just the right amount of give. Once inserted the tip of this toy will be placed on or around the P-Spot while the fatter end with the nubs will rest on the taint. There is a small one-touch vibe that can be inserted into nubby end of the Rude Boy that will cause the whole toy to vibrate. This vibration will transmit up through the Rude Boy to your P-Spot and the nubby end will massage the taint. The curved shape is designed to rock back and forth to get the optimum pleasure. This is the perfect solo toy if you are single or if your partner has gone out of town!

Materials: Silicone

Hypoallergenic

Vibe: One Touch Chrome 80mm Bullet Vibe, Waterproof

Batteries: 1N 1.5 Volt (this is an environmentally friendly battery)

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Clean Vibe Separately with Soap and Water, Silicone portion is Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe.

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

P-Decadence

This is glass for your ass! As I have discussed in previous entries glass toys have lots of added benefits. You can quickly change their temperature with a dip in cool or warm water. It is firm and can be used to apply just the right amount of pressure to the prostate. Plus it has a smooth surface that slides right in. To use this toy you want to make sure you apply plenty of lube then insert the curved end in so it points toward your naval. Rocking it back and forth will massage your P-Spot. With the P-Decadence you really get a 2 for 1 deal because if you use the other end of this toy you will get an entirely different experience. The shape on this end of P-Decadence is similar to the shape of anal beads. Give it a try you won’t be disappointed.

Materials: Blue Pyrex Glass

Lube: Water or Silicone Based Recommended

Size: Length 8.5” Width 1.5”

Cleaning: Soap and Water, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars 

Prostate Health

Prostate Health is made out of high-grade silicone and has a very unique design. This flexible toy's crazy looking shape is actually designed to curve with the natural curves of the body. The bulbous head vibrates with the help of an insert able bullet vibe and teaches the man using this toy to relax while getting a gentle P-Spot massage. All of this will help reduce the risk of prostatis and BPM. Prostate Health also features a small thumb grip to help create a comfortable hold on the toy during use. Prostate Health will make your next trip to the doctor much more pleasant. So why not enjoy being healthy for a change?

Material: Silicone

Size: 4.5" Length 1" Diameter

Vibration: Optional (with Bullet Vibe)

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe

Accessories: Bullet Vibe (comes with it)

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

You can find all of these toys in the "For Him" section of the Dildo Whisperer Store. 

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

Valentine's Day- The ultimate gift for your guy. Part I

I know that you guys are thinking it is too early to be thinking about Valentine's Day but I was just in my local Target store the other day and I have to respectfully disagree. They had a huge corner of the store sectioned off for all things pink and red. It was like cupid and all but puked on the place. The truth is Valentine's Day is approaching. But sadly, not for everyone because it considered to be a holiday where ladies get gifts of love. But what about the guys? Have you ever really looked at the selection of Valentine's gifts and thought, "yeah, my man would so love that!" You haven't? The reason for that is that those gifts suck! Well, I say fuck that shit! Guys deserve kick ass gifts too.

For this very reason dear reader I am putting together a list of five items that would make any man happy. I think it is time that the men get in on Valentine's Day. After all, they enjoy a gift of love too!

1. The Cock Ring!

Get your guy a cock ring. Most guys have a fantasy that their cock was just a little bit bigger. While a cock ring won't actually make his dick bigger it will make it feel bigger! The function of a cock ring is to keep the blood from rushing out of a man's dick. This keeps him harder longer and will help intensify his orgasm. Take a look at a few options that I have in the "For Him" section of my online toy store.

Neoprene C Ring

This is the perfect beginner cock ring. If your man has never played with one before this is where you should start. This stretchy cock ring is made of a thick, soft and seamless neoprene. It is made to fit comfortably around your cock and balls without pulling your skin or hair. You can also use it with any type of lube for an even more comfortable fit. The reason this is a good beginner cock ring is because you don't have to fear getting "caught" in this toy. If it starts to feel overly snug it is easy to remove unlike metal cock rings.

Material: Neoprene

Size: 1.75" and 2"

Lube: Any type

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Leather C-Ring with 3 Speed Bullet

Adding this to your cock is like adding turbo power to your car. We already know the added benefits of wearing a cock ring but let's talk about how adding a bullet vibe to that takes sex while wearing a cock ring to a whole new level. If the man wearing this cock ring is having sex with a woman he can turn the vibe so it rests on the top of his cock. As he trusts this vibe will make contact with her clit. Any clit girl will tell you this is exactly the kind of play she wants! If the man wearing this cock ring is having sex with another man or using it while alone I suggest turning the vibe so it rests on his perineum (the space between his balls and anus). This will allow the vibration to massage the P-spot. Trust me fellas, it feels good!

This leather c-ring features a 3 speed one touch bullet vibe so you can adjust the speed depending on your needs. The vibe itself runs on 3 watch batteries that can be purchased in my online store. The vibe is also waterproof and easily removable for cleaning. The leather strap on this cock ring is adjustable and features a snap closure making it very easy to get on and off.

Materials: Leather, Hard Plastic, Metal Snap Closure

Vibe: 3 speed, one touch, waterproof

Batteries: 3 Watch

Lube: water based recommended

Cleaning: Soap and Water or Afterglow Wipes

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Love U Vibe Ring

If you want to try a vibrating cock ring but not sure you are going to like it then this might be the perfect cock ring for you. Think of this c-ring as a sampler. It is designed for one use which is why it only costs $7. It will still give you many of the benefits of all the other c-rings only you wear this one just around the base of the penis. Sample it out and if you like it buy the Leather C-Ring with the 3 Speed vibe. (slick shaft toy pictured to the left is not included)

Materials: Jelly Rubber

Vibration: One speed, one touch

Single Use Only

Rating: *** 3 out of 5 Stars

C-SLING

Okay, so we have talked about a few cock rings but I saved the most impressive for last. This is not your average cock ring and you should have a fair amount of experience with cock rings before giving this one a shot. The C-Sling is made out of high grade silicone and is not very stretchy so it takes a little maneuvering to get all the goods in place with this one. Lube up the inner ring of the C-Sling then start with your balls. Push them in first before moving on to the shaft of your penis. Make sure you have a good understanding of what size cock ring you typically wear to ensure a comfortable experience. Once you have this bad boy in place you are good to go. The C-Sling has a design unlike any other cock ring out there. The tear drop tip is designed to point back towards your taint. It cups your balls all while pressing or "tapping" on your perineum and delivering an external prostate massage as you move. The C-Sling will also help elongate your orgasm for up to 45 seconds! Now, doesn't that sound like a winner?

Materials: Silicone

Size: Wide band for Comfort, Interior Diameter 1 5/8"

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Soap and Water, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher safe

Other: Hypoallergenic

Rating: ***** 5 out of 5

In the coming days, I will give you four more great gift ideas from my online toy store for the man in your life. Even if that man is yourself!

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you would like the Dildo Whisperer to answer let me know. I am also available for private consultations. Simply email me at romaine@eatromaine and I will get right back to you.

Get into the Rabbit Habit.

The Rabbit toy has been around for a good many years but it didn't really get popular until the infamous "The Turtle and the Hare " episode of Sex and the City. In the episode Charlotte is introduced to a sex toy called, "The Rabbit." What happens next is frankly what happens to many women who enjoy this toy for the first time. She locked herself in her bedroom and didn't want to come out. She simply couldn't stop herself from enjoying all the pleasure the Rabbit was delivering. 

When I first moved to NYC like Charlotte I was frustrated with dating and living single in the big city. So when I saw this episode of Sex and the City like many other women in the country I rushed out to find myself one of these amazing Rabbit toys. I spent what felt like a fortune ($179) on a toy called the iRabbit. It was purple beauty and I rushed right home to take it for a test ride. From sensation stand point the iRabbit was awesome! It delivered on its promise to be an incredible toy. Functionality aside there are a good many aspects of this toy that fell far below my expectations. I wish that I had been the Dildo Whisperer then that I am today. I would have known what pit falls to avoid and the difference between a great quality toy and a very expensive knock off. 

The design of nearly every Rabbit toy out there is the same. There is a shaft that twirls around in a small circular fashion and inside it are a number of "pearls" that rotate around the shaft to create G-Spot stimulation. Then attached to the base of the shaft there is a bullet vibe that is shaped like a rabbit. The ears are designed to reach up and tickle the clit. This toy has lots of moving parts so it isn't what I would call a silent toy but when it is doing its thing you won't care that it is louder then your other toys. It is designed to blow your mind and it delivers. The handle is often the battery compartment and has either a number of buttons or slide fader like controls. The shaft and the rabbit bullet vibe have separate controls for independent use. Run the Rabbit fast and the shaft slow or whatever feels right for you.

         

Not all Rabbits are created equal! Most are made out of jelly rubber and this low quality type of rubber is  just one of the problems I ran into with my first Rabbit. Jelly rubber often is porous which means that after time bacteria can grow inside it. Plus, many of these low quality rubbers can contain chemicals called Pthalates that are thought to be harmful. Then there is the matter of the "pearls" that are inside the shaft of the Rabbit. There are a lot of parts and motors in this toy and that means that it is more prone to breaking. In the case of the "pearls" inside the rabbit they have a tendency to get jammed. Not something you want to have happen while they are rolling across your G-Spot. Then there is the issue of the battery compartment. This is the one thing about my iRabbit that made me the most insane. Due to the fact that the battery compartment is also the handle one would think that the compartment would be designed to stay closed when handled. That was not the case with my iRabbit. Every time I was getting into my grove the damn battery would come off and the batteries would pop out. It made me crazy! Eventually, I just duct taped the damn thing on. 

Luckily, for you my lovely readers there is one company that finally worked out all the kinks in the Rabbit design so you won't run into the same problems I  did. I'd like to introduce you to the toy that O Magazine calls the "Rolls Royce of sex toys." 

The Rabbit Habit

So what makes Rabbit Habit different? Let's start with the materials used in this toy. The Rabbit Habit is made with a rubber called TPR. This rubber doesn't contain of the harmful chemicals that many of the other rabbit toys do. The "pearls"in the Rabbit Habit are designed in a way so they won't jam during use.  This will make your G-Spot much happier!  The controls on the Rabbit Habit are a fader design which means you don't have to get confused on which button to push while you are trying to enjoy yourself. I might have had this problem with the other designs. The Rabbit Habit runs on 3 AA batteries in a compartment that doesn't just pop open when handled. Plus, it comes in my favorite color, Purple! I have tried a dozen or so different rabbit toys over the years and this one has to be the top of the list. Let me put it this way dear readers. The Rabbit Habit is the only rabbit toy still in my personal toy box.

You can check it out for yourself in the "Toys" section of my online toy store.

Materials: TPR Rubber (pthalate free)

Size: 9" length 1.5" diameter

Vibration: 2 types (Shaft and Clitoral) both have variable speeds

Batteries: 3 AA

Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Soap and water (DO NOT submerge in water and be careful of moving parts)

Lube: Water based lube

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Clean Up AND Get Off

Keeping with the sex in the shower theme I want to go over a couple of fun items that will make bath time even more pleasurable. What I love about the next couple of items is that they serve more then one purpose. You can use these items to soap up and get off! All of these toys were designed by the brilliant minds over at Sportsheets and they are a part of the Sex in the Shower line. All of these items can be found in my online store under the "Bath, Body and Wellness" section.

We all have one of those mesh sponge things in our shower that we use to soap up and scrub off right? I think my shower actually has like three of them in it. So who would notice one more?

Introducing the Vibrating Mesh Sponge!

This discreet toy is the perfect bathtub accessory. Inside this mesh sponge is a small water proof vibrator. With the push of one button it will start vibrating and no one would be the wiser! Use it for a solo shower or surprise your lover with a sexy massage. The vibrator is a single speed and runs on a couple of watch batteries. The batteries are easy to change out so this vibrating mesh sponge will keep you happy for a long time!

Materials: Mesh Sponge

Vibration: One Touch, Single speed Bullet Vibe

Batteries: Watch Batteries

Rating: *** 3 out of 5 stars

Perhaps you don't like those little mesh scrubby things. Well, fear not there is an alternative.

The Vibrating Sponge!

Just like the mesh vibrating sponge this version contains a small pocket for a single speed, push button bullet vibrator. The only difference is the material of the sponge. Both sponge materials transmit the vibration from the bullet vibe really well. Cleaning up has never really been this much fun!

Materials: Sponge
Vibration: One Touch, Single Speed Bullet Vibrator
Batteries: Watch Batteries
Rating: *** 3 out of 5 Stars

This next item is perhaps my favorite item from the Sportsheets Sex In The Shower line. In fact, when I first was sent all of the items from them I pulled this one out of the pile and raved about how I was going to use it. Every lady at the office I showed it to instantly wanted one. What is it?

The Sex In The Shower Foot Rest! 

I know it doesn't look like much at first glance. However, let me tell you why it is so f'ing awesome. Let's start with its sex applications. When having shower sex one of the biggest obstacles is getting into the right position while still maintaing your balance. Remember the story from my last entry? This Sex In The Shower Foot Rest attaches to the wall of your shower with a strong suction cup. You can rest your foot on it to achieve the optimal position for sexual intercourse while standing.

This will give you much better leverage and will keep the person getting screwed from getting one of those horrible charlie horses in their leg or hip while having sex. Pair this Foot Rest up with the Dual Locking Handle and you are all set to have some of the best and safest shower sex of your life!

Okay, sex aside let me tell you how I plan on using the Sex In The Shower Foot Rest! Ladies listen up. This foot rest is PERFECT for use while you shave your legs! That's right! I know I may sound crazy here talking about a device designed for sex in such a practical way but sorry that's how I am going to use this thing. No more bending over to shave my legs. No more trying to balance with just my big toe on the edge of the tub. Now, I can perch my foot up and shave away without any worries at all! Once you use it ladies you will ask yourself how you ever lived without it! Trust me!

Materials: Hard Plastic with a Suction cup
Accessories: Dual Locking Handle, Shaving cream and Razor!
Rating: ***** 5 out of 5 Stars

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know.

Prostate Health

If you ask any guy in the world he will tell you that he hates going in for his prostate check up. Listen, I get it. But let's face facts Prostate Cancer has been becoming more and more common. Which is why it is so important to make sure men are doing everything in their power to keep their prostate healthy. Unlike keeping healthy in other ways keeping your prostate in good working order can actually be a ton of fun! Women have a G-spot, which is often described as this magical spot inside their pussies that creates amazing orgasms. Well, most people don't realize that men have their own version of the G-spot. I like to call it the P-spot. The prostate gland is actually very sensitive and responds in a very desireable way to stimulation. What's even better is that a P-spot massage can lead to incredible orgasms as well as prostate health! Sounds like a pretty fair trade to me.

Now, that you know how to achive a good orgasm and prostate health you probably need help picking the right toy to reach this end. I'm going to make this easy on you.
Prostate Health (yep, that's the name of this toy)

Prostate Health is made out of high grade silicone and has a very unique design. This flexable toy's crazy looking shape is actually designed to curve with the natural curves of the body. The boulbous head vibrates with the help of an insertable bullet vibe and teaches the man using this toy to relax while getting a gentle P-Spot massage. All of this will help reduce the risk of prostatis and BPM. Prosate Health also features a small thumb grip to help create a comfortable hold on the toy during use. You will hear me say this many times but all toys that are intended to go in your ass MUST have a flared base and this toy has that. The flared base prevents the toy from traveling past your sphincter in an undesired way. A flared base is a REQUIREMENT for all anal plug type toys.

If you or the guy in your life needs a little Prosate Health go to my toy store and pick up one of these great toys. It is time to make that next prostate check up easier.

Material: silicone
Size: 4.5" length 1" diameter
Vibration: Optional (with Bullet Vibe)
Lube: Water based Lube (I like thicker lubes for anal sex like Maximus)
Cleaning: Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe
Accessories: Bullet Vibe (comes with it)
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Echo!

Echo!

It didn't take me long to decide which toy in my new toy store that I wanted review first. I am going to start with my FAVORITE one! Echo. This toy is made by Tantus and is made out of silicone. Mine is a silver one but I am in love with the purple version in the toy store. I think I might have to just get that one as well. I am a G-spot girl and there are only a few toys that hit me in just the right spot. What I love about Echo is that this toy has a head that is on the larger size without being oversized. The head alone makes for a really nice sensation on the G-spot but what makes echo even more awesome is that the head shape is "echoed" down the shaft of this toy. As each of those bumps passes over the G-spot you will be begging for more! Want back door action? Well, I've used Echo there as well and had equally positive results! Given that this toy is made of silicone it has just the right level of give while still being firm enough to handle with ease. Echo has a nice flared base making it compatible for anal sex or with a harness.

Now, I have to talk about one little feature on Echo that I think is often over looked in other reviews. In the bottom of this toy there is a small hole. This was put there so you can insert a small battery powered bullet vibrator. There is a bullet vibe included with your Echo if you buy it at my toy store. Silicone transmits vibration really well so adding a bullet is always fun. However, I use this small hole in another way. I am often using my Echo alone and anyone that has handled a toy and lube at all that knows that things tend to get slippery and hard to hold onto. That is where this little hole comes in handy! I stick my finger in it and it creates a little suction that keeps it stuck on my finger. It makes it so easy to handle this toy and get it into just the right spot.


You can also put a suction cup attachment (available in the store) in that hole and use it in the shower or anywhere else you want to ride! When you are all done playing this toy is quick and easy to clean. Echo as been in my personal toy box for a good long time. Echo is a great basic toy that everyone should have in their personal collection. Even as more high tech toys have made their way into my life there is just nothing like the orgasm I get from my Echo.

Material: Silicone
Size: Length 6.5" Girth 1.5"
Vibration: (optional w bullet vibe)
Lube: Water Based recommended
Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Boil, Bleachable and Dishwasher safe
Accessories: Bullet Vibe, Suction Cup, Harness Compatible
Rating: 5 out 5 stars