Luxury at your finger tips!

Have you ever fallen in love at first sight? That rare moment when you see someone or something that you know you simply cannot, will not live without? I was recently faced with such a moment. Ducky Doolittle and Metis Black came on to my radio show to talk about some the new toys that they had just added to the Love U Parties line. Knowing me as they do they knew that had to make the announcement about these toys with me so I could oooh and ahhhh over them. I did not disappoint. There were two items from the line that stood out to me as must have toys. I promise I will review both of them but for the sake of this entry I am going to stick with my favorite of the two items.

Lush

This toy is luxury at its finest. Cast is aluminum Lush is then coated in silicone to give the insertable surface a softer feel. The shaft of this toy is curved for perfect G-Spot play. All you need to do is insert it slightly and then rock it over your G-Spot. There are four small ridges on the tip that can be pulled over your G-Spot for added stimulation. Being a G-Spot girl I knew I would love Lush long before I ever actually got my hands on it.

While attending a Love U event in NYC a few weeks ago I actually got my hands on Lush for the first time. Lush comes packaged in a stunning leather case that zips up. It was the first signal to me that good things were coming. I love a toy that has a package that matches the quality of the toy. Lush had all the attributes I love from a metal toy. It had a solid and sturdy shaft and felt slightly heavy in my hand. Being made of aluminum it transmitted the vibration beautifully. I ran my fingers over the perfectly fitted and placed silicone section. Then I flipped the toy over to look at the underside of Lush. That's when I discovered something that made me weak in the knees! You see every picture I had seen of Lush before this moment only showed the top view of the toy but there was a hidden design feature there that was brilliant. I called Ducky Doolittle over and scolded her, "How could you not tell me about this design feature?"
She looked at the underside of Lush and stated, "I don't understand. Exactly how would you use this?"

Take a look at this view of Lush.

Can you see what made me so excited? It is that little groove. See it? Now, to answer Ducky's question. I would use that little groove to cup around my clit. Talk about taking your orgasms to a new level. Not only will you get amazing on point clitoral action but you will also get great surface coverage from the flat rounded tip of Lush. The controls light up beautifully with a pink LED so you will never have trouble finding the controls in the dark.

Lush is a perfectly designed G-Spotting toy and clit toy. Now, pair all of that with the fact that Lush is rechargeable, waterproof and impressively quiet and you have the world's most perfect toy. I would love to shake the hand of the designer behind Lush and thank them for the hours of fun play that I know I will be enjoying for years to come.

I should note that they ONLY place that you can get Lush is from a Love U Consultant like me. So if you want one and you know you do head over to the Dildo Whisperer's online store. You have never known luxury and quality until you own Lush. I know that was the case for me so don't wait go get this toy!

Materials: Aluminum coated in silicone, Pink LED lighted controls
Waterproof, Rechargeable
Vibration: 5 Speeds of Vibration
Length: 7" (insertable length: 4.5")
Width: 1.5 (insertable width 1.5")
Lube: Love U Water Recommended
Cleaning: Soap and Water or Afterglow Wipes
Includes: Power Adapter, Leather Vanity Tote, Microfiber Storage Bag, Product Manual
1- Year warranty

DON'T FORGET!!!

This month we have all kinds of April incentives at the Dildo Whisperer Online Store! Everyone who spends at least $100 will get a Love U Bullet Vibe. Everyone who spends $200-299 will get a Mod Rocket and tube of Cool Mint and everyone who spends more than $300 will get a Love U Bullet Vibe and a bottle of Love U Silicone Lubricant! So don't delay and get to shopping right now at the Dildo Whisperer Online Store.

See the Blog Entry: April Incentives for all the details.
If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

Valentine's Day- Lube up! A gift for your guy. Part V

It is time for me to divulge my fifth final Valentine’s Day gift idea for the man in your life. I spent some time thinking about what should be the final item and I decided on a simple but most important item. If a guy doesn’t have this in his bedside table then he is surely missing out.

5. LUBE!

Lube is one of the most important items needed to make sure a guy has a healthy and active sex life. Guys can use it for jacking off, having sex, playing with toys and is a REQUIREMENT for anal sex! Lube is such a necessary item for sexual activity that the lube industry has taken off. There are entire websites dedicated to all things lube. With so many new brands and types it is easy to get confused. But fear not dear reader, the Dildo Whisperer is here to help you navigate these slippery waters!

Boy Butter (Original) – Use to Jack off!

Boy Butter (Original) is the only Boy Butter lube I currently carry in the Dildo Whisperer Online Store but we carry it in two different size and containers. Even though there are several other Boy Butter Lubes out there for the sake of this entry I am going to focus on the Boy Butter (Original Formula). Boy Butter designs all their lubes to be a cream style lube which is why they are so great to jack off with. This lube is nice and thick and will feel great when paired with your hand or favorite jack off toy. Another great attribute of Boy Butter is that it washes off with a little soap and water. Meaning you don't have to worry about stains on your sheets or a difficult clean up.

Boy Butter (Original) is an oil-based lubricant that is made up from two very gentle ingredients: coconut oil and organic silicone. These ingredients are then homogenized just like real butter and the end result is a long lasting creamy lubricant. This lube is hypoallergenic and is safe on all toys. However, there is one VERY IMPORTANT thing I must tell you about. Because this lube is oil-based it is not compatible with any latex safer sex supplies like latex condoms. So this lube is best used for solo play or sex with a trusted partner.
Active Ingredients: Coconut Oil and organic Silicone
Applications: Masturbation, Sex Toy Play, Anal Sex

Warnings: Do not use with Latex Condoms, NOT latex compatible.

Accessories: Your hand, Male Strokers/ Masturbation Sleeves, Sex toys

Rating: *** 3 out of 5 stars

Love U Water Lubricant- Use for Sex, Masturbation and with Toys.

Water based lubricants have been around for many years. These lubes will keep your skin from facing abrasive friction and will help your bouts of sex last longer. But perhaps the most important thing this lube will do is help protect the delicate skin around your naughty parts. There are a million different types of water based lubes in the market and many of them are very good. But there are a few things you want to make sure you avoid. The two biggest things to avoid in your water based lube are Glycerin and Parabens. These ingredients can lead to some rather unpleasant reactions from your body. (I’ve been there and take it from me it sucks.) To avoid these ingredients it is best to go with a brand you trust. Love U Water Lubricant is made to be gentle on your sexy bits and doesn’t contain any harmful chemicals or ingredients that will make your sexy bits feel not so sexy. Because this lube is water based it can be used with virtually every sex toy made and it is super easy to wash off. This lube will not stain and will not become sticky like a lot of other water based lubes do. If this lube starts to dry out a little bit of water will make it super slippery all over again! Give the Love U Water Lubricant a try and it will Love U as much as you love it.

Active Ingredients: Water, Propanediol, Hydroxypropyl Methylcellulose, Xanthan Gum, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Sodium Benzoate, Patasium Sorbate, Citric Acid.

Applications: Vaginal Sex, Masturbation, Anal Sex, Safe with Most toys

Other Information: Glycerin Free. Paraben Free. Naturally Derived. Vegan. DEA Free.

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars
Love U Silicone Lubricant – Use for Sex and Masturbation or Sex in the Shower

Silicone lubes are no joke. These lubes are designed to be super slick and last really long. They have tons of benefits but they also have a few down sides. Let’s start with what makes these lubes rock. A silicone based lube is going to stay slick until you wash it off. So you don’t have to worry about your lube drying out or wearing off and it will never get sticky. Silicone lubes are also water proof. So you can put in on and have shower or hot tub sex without it washing away. The Love U Silicone Lubricant comes with all of these great qualities plus it is hypoallergenic and will help protect your most delicate skin. This lube is best when used for skin on skin applications like a hand job or sex. However, the Love U Silicone Lubricant has all kinds of uses outside of sex as well! For instance, I have heard of people using the Love U Silicone Lubricant as a shaving cream to help get a nice smooth shave without out skin irritation. I’ve even heard of people using a small amount to help give their hair a little extra shine.

There are a couple of things to keep in mind though when considering a silicone lubricant. These lubes don’t wash off easily. They require a little soap and water so clean up can be a little more difficult. If you have hard wood floors try to avoid spilling this stuff on them because it can make the floor slick with slick on top. (Been there, done that…I almost died! Another story for another day) Last but not least, do not use a silicone lube with a silicone toy. This can result in the silicone lube bonding onto the toy and ruining it. It is a very costly mistake that you do not want to make. So NO silicone lube on silicone toy action please.

The Love U Silicone Lube is everything you want in a good silicone lube and the best part is that you know with this lube you are getting the highest quality lube because it is coming from the Love U brand. Love U is dedicated to making sure non of their products contains harmful chemicals or ingredients so you can be sure your sexy bits are safe. If you want a slick lube that is designed to last look no further then Love U Silicone Lubricant.
Active Ingredients: Cyclopentasiloxane, Dimethicone, Dimethiconol

Applications: Sex, Masturbation, Sex in the Water and use with non-silicone toys.

Other Information: Hypoallergenic. Glycerin Free. Paraben Free. Naturally Derived. Vegan. DEA Free.

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Lube is and will always be one of the most basic items that you should have when engaging in any form of sex. If you have never used it before then you are really missing out. If you ever have questions about which lube to use for a specific application please ask the Dildo Whisperer and I will happily help you out. You can find all of the lubes mentioned in this entry at the Dildo Whisperer's Online Store in the "Bath, Body & Wellness" Section.

This concludes my Valentine's Day -Gift For Your Guy series. Get one or all of these products and I guarantee that that man in your life will continue to love you for a very long time. Even if that man is yourself. We all deserve a little something special on Valentine's Day so go on and treat yourself or the man you love today!

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

Valentine's Day- The ultimate gift for your guy. Part I

I know that you guys are thinking it is too early to be thinking about Valentine's Day but I was just in my local Target store the other day and I have to respectfully disagree. They had a huge corner of the store sectioned off for all things pink and red. It was like cupid and all but puked on the place. The truth is Valentine's Day is approaching. But sadly, not for everyone because it considered to be a holiday where ladies get gifts of love. But what about the guys? Have you ever really looked at the selection of Valentine's gifts and thought, "yeah, my man would so love that!" You haven't? The reason for that is that those gifts suck! Well, I say fuck that shit! Guys deserve kick ass gifts too.

For this very reason dear reader I am putting together a list of five items that would make any man happy. I think it is time that the men get in on Valentine's Day. After all, they enjoy a gift of love too!

1. The Cock Ring!

Get your guy a cock ring. Most guys have a fantasy that their cock was just a little bit bigger. While a cock ring won't actually make his dick bigger it will make it feel bigger! The function of a cock ring is to keep the blood from rushing out of a man's dick. This keeps him harder longer and will help intensify his orgasm. Take a look at a few options that I have in the "For Him" section of my online toy store.

Neoprene C Ring

This is the perfect beginner cock ring. If your man has never played with one before this is where you should start. This stretchy cock ring is made of a thick, soft and seamless neoprene. It is made to fit comfortably around your cock and balls without pulling your skin or hair. You can also use it with any type of lube for an even more comfortable fit. The reason this is a good beginner cock ring is because you don't have to fear getting "caught" in this toy. If it starts to feel overly snug it is easy to remove unlike metal cock rings.

Material: Neoprene

Size: 1.75" and 2"

Lube: Any type

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Leather C-Ring with 3 Speed Bullet

Adding this to your cock is like adding turbo power to your car. We already know the added benefits of wearing a cock ring but let's talk about how adding a bullet vibe to that takes sex while wearing a cock ring to a whole new level. If the man wearing this cock ring is having sex with a woman he can turn the vibe so it rests on the top of his cock. As he trusts this vibe will make contact with her clit. Any clit girl will tell you this is exactly the kind of play she wants! If the man wearing this cock ring is having sex with another man or using it while alone I suggest turning the vibe so it rests on his perineum (the space between his balls and anus). This will allow the vibration to massage the P-spot. Trust me fellas, it feels good!

This leather c-ring features a 3 speed one touch bullet vibe so you can adjust the speed depending on your needs. The vibe itself runs on 3 watch batteries that can be purchased in my online store. The vibe is also waterproof and easily removable for cleaning. The leather strap on this cock ring is adjustable and features a snap closure making it very easy to get on and off.

Materials: Leather, Hard Plastic, Metal Snap Closure

Vibe: 3 speed, one touch, waterproof

Batteries: 3 Watch

Lube: water based recommended

Cleaning: Soap and Water or Afterglow Wipes

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Love U Vibe Ring

If you want to try a vibrating cock ring but not sure you are going to like it then this might be the perfect cock ring for you. Think of this c-ring as a sampler. It is designed for one use which is why it only costs $7. It will still give you many of the benefits of all the other c-rings only you wear this one just around the base of the penis. Sample it out and if you like it buy the Leather C-Ring with the 3 Speed vibe. (slick shaft toy pictured to the left is not included)

Materials: Jelly Rubber

Vibration: One speed, one touch

Single Use Only

Rating: *** 3 out of 5 Stars

C-SLING

Okay, so we have talked about a few cock rings but I saved the most impressive for last. This is not your average cock ring and you should have a fair amount of experience with cock rings before giving this one a shot. The C-Sling is made out of high grade silicone and is not very stretchy so it takes a little maneuvering to get all the goods in place with this one. Lube up the inner ring of the C-Sling then start with your balls. Push them in first before moving on to the shaft of your penis. Make sure you have a good understanding of what size cock ring you typically wear to ensure a comfortable experience. Once you have this bad boy in place you are good to go. The C-Sling has a design unlike any other cock ring out there. The tear drop tip is designed to point back towards your taint. It cups your balls all while pressing or "tapping" on your perineum and delivering an external prostate massage as you move. The C-Sling will also help elongate your orgasm for up to 45 seconds! Now, doesn't that sound like a winner?

Materials: Silicone

Size: Wide band for Comfort, Interior Diameter 1 5/8"

Lube: Water Based Recommended

Cleaning: Soap and Water, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher safe

Other: Hypoallergenic

Rating: ***** 5 out of 5

In the coming days, I will give you four more great gift ideas from my online toy store for the man in your life. Even if that man is yourself!

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you would like the Dildo Whisperer to answer let me know. I am also available for private consultations. Simply email me at romaine@eatromaine and I will get right back to you.

Light Me Up! The story of my dead clit.

Years ago, my clit was dead. Okay, not really dead but it might as well have been. I could only have an orgasm through G-Spot stimulation and I felt like I was missing out. Everyone kept telling me that the clit was the most magical place on my body but I wasn't convinced because it sure didn't seem to work for me. I didn't know what to do to bring my clit back to life so I turned to one of my favorite sexperts, Ducky Doolittle! She has a way in which she talks about sex and toys that just seems to make perfect sense. With her help I came up with a game plan to revive my clit. The first order of business was to get myself a good strong vibrator. I went for the classic pocket rocket. The next step was to use it EVERY DAY. I did this for around a month. I tried just about every way I could think of when it came to stroking it across my clit. I went to the right side and the left, up and down and even in circles. I made up patterns and tried all kinds of stuff. After a good long while I started to feel some changes. My body started reacting to the stimulation in ways I had not expected and for the first time ever I started to understand what all the fuss was about. After figuring out where the sweet spots were I wasn't shocked when it finally happened. I had my first orgasm ever from just stimulating my clit. I was so relieved. My clit wasn't dead after all. I just needed to learn how to make it do its thing. My pocket rocket is now a staple item in my toy box. I go through more AA batteries with this thing then you can even imagine! But let me tell you, I never masturbate with out this toy close by. Not ever!

So what is this pocket rocket I am speaking of? Well, tons of companies have been making them for years but I have a special version that I carry in my online store.

Light Me Up Vibe

This toy doesn't look like much but boy does it pack a punch. The Light Me Up Vibe runs on a single AA battery. It is a single speed vibrator but as the battery fades so does the power of this toy. When it starts to get to low I just pop in a new AA and away we go! What is cool about this version is that it actually lights up when it is turned on. This makes finding any other toys you have laying around a bit easier. Not to mention any extra batteries you might bring along for the fun. The Light Me Up Vibe has a small O ring inside it where the two parts of the toy connect. This makes the toy waterproof and safe to use in the shower. It also makes clean up a bit easier. Simply wash with a little soap and water. I like to have a small finger nail brush on hand for cleaning as there are 3 little nubs at the top of the toy that are a little tricky to clean around. A little scrub and you are good to go.

This toy is so simple in design that it is hard to believe that it is so amazing but trust me it is. The best part is the price. The Light Me Up Vibe like many of its pocket rocket friends runs around $18. This isn't an expensive toy so they can die after some time but don't worry I promise you will enjoy every cent you spend on this one. So if you are a girl like me that is looking to revive your clit or you a just a girl that loves that clitoral stimulation your toy box simply must have one of these!

You can find the Light Me Up Vibe under the "Toys" section of my online toy store.

Material: Hard Plastic
Size: 2.5" Length
Vibration: One Speed
Lube: Water based Lube, or Silicone
Cleaning: Wash with soap and water, Use a small scrub brush for parts
Batteries: One AA Battery required
Rating: ***** 5 out of 5 Stars