Grab the Remote and Ride this Wave.

It seems like there are more and more toys coming out that feature remote controls. I love this concept for several reasons. First, it means you can actually look at the controls instead of just reaching down and trying to feel around for them. I really hate it when I am half way to my orgasm and I reach down to turn things up and end up turning things off! Let me tell you it ruins the mood. With a remote you can hold in your hand you never have to make such a terrible mistake because you will actually be able to see which buttons you are pushing. The second thing I like about remote controlled toys is the fun you can have with a partner that is in control of your remote. Imagine being across the room and controlling the vibration and toy play of your partner. Talk about control! This takes sex play to a whole new level. Now what do you say dear DW reader, are you ready to try your hand with a remote?

Remote Body Wave

This is a classic dual action toy. The Remote Body Wave has an insertable vibrating shaft that is curved for G-Spot action. Plus, this toy has a wave like section designed to make your clit hum! It is very similar design to the Rabbit Habit. The Remote Body Wave features 6 different functions of speed and pulsation that will have you riding the wave of pleasure for a good long time. The controls are easy to understand and this toy has a lighted display so you can see what you are doing even in the dark. It also has a one touch OFF button. This comes in handy for those times you get off and just can't take another second of stimulation. Hit one button and it all shuts down. You will notice that the Remote Body Wave has controls on the toy itself in addition to the remote control. That way you can still use this toy even if you misplace the remote. Speaking of the remote this baby works up to 20 feet away so you have lots of options when playing with it. Hold it in your free hand to control the toy during masturbation or when your partner has it inside you. Or you could give it to your partner and they can sit in the corner and watch you get off from a distance. Use your imagination and have fun! The Remote Body Wave is made of a safe TPR rubber that is free from Phthalates. So you know it is safe for your body. The total length of this toy is 9.5" but only about 4.5" of it is actually insertable. The diameter is 1.5" and the head of this toy has a nice rounded shape that will feel really great on your G-Spot. This bad boy needs one  9V Battery for the remote and 3 AAA batteries for the toy itself. When cleaning this toy you want to make sure that you don't get any water near or around the battery compartment. Getting water in this area will ruin the toy. I suggest the Afterglow Wipes to make cleaning up easier. In terms of lube you want to stick with something water based like the Love U Water Lubricant. The Remote Body Wave is a really fun and functional toy. You can use it alone or with a partner and will have lots of fun either way. If you are looking for the new way to play give the Remote Body Wave a try! You can find this toy in the "Toys" section of the Dildo Whisperer's online store.

Materials: TPR Rubber
Phthalate free
Size: Length 9.5" Diameter 1.5"
Vibration: 6 functions of Speed and Pulsation
Lube: Water Based Recommended
Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Soap and Water (Avoid getting in or around battery compartment)
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Valentine's Day Gift Buying Guide- For The Ladies Out There!

Valentine’s Day is dedicated to the women of the world. Every year women wait patiently to see what their lover will offer up as a sign of their love and devotion. But picking the right gift is not always as easy as one might think. Since I spent so much time offering up gift ideas for the men this Valentine’s Day season I thought it was only fair to put together a small list for the ladies. This list is for the loving partners who just don’t know where to start looking for the right gift and for all you single ladies that deserve something special too. Just because you don’t have a lover doesn’t mean you don’t deserve a little something lovely.

Every woman should have a toy box and some toy boxes are more full then others. (You should see mine!) The list of items that I am going to cover is separated into categories depending on the type of item it is. It is up to you to pick the right category for the woman in your life.







Staple Items

There are certain items that every girl should have in her toy box. These items don’t have to be fancy to  get the job done but a girl would be lost without them.

LUBE

There are two basic kinds of lubes that women should have in their toy box. A water based lube and a silicone based lube. The Love U Water Lubricant is designed to use when masturbating or having sex. It can also be used with any kind of sex toy and will wash off very easily. The Love U Silicone Lubricant is very slick and is perfect for masturbation and vaginal or anal sex. It is designed to stay slick and never dry out. Although, it requires soap and water to wash off and cannot be used with Silicone toys. For more information on these lubes see the previous entry of The Dildo Whisperer’s Blog.

Love U Water Lubricant
Active Ingredients: Water, Propanediol, Hydroxypropyl Methylcellulose, Xanthan Gum, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Sodium Benzoate, Patasium Sorbate, Citric Acid.
Applications: Vaginal Sex, Masturbation, Anal Sex, Safe with Most toys
Other Information: Glycerin Free. Paraben Free. Naturally Derived. Vegan. DEA Free.
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Love U Silicone Lubricant
Active Ingredients: Cyclopentasiloxane, Dimethicone, Dimethiconol
Applications: Sex, Masturbation, Sex in the Water and use with non-silicone toys.
Other Information: Hypoallergenic. Glycerin Free. Paraben Free. Naturally Derived. Vegan. DEA Free.
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars


Sensational Items

Making your partner feel good is the whole point of these items. I am firm believer that if your partner feels sexy and desirable that it will result in much better sexual encounters. We all like to be pampered from time to time so this Valentine’s Day take a few minutes to pamper and enjoy your partner.

Hot Heart Massager Paired with Massage Oil or Body Souffle

The Hot Heart Massager is perhaps the best item I carry in “Bath, Body & Wellness” section of the Dildo Whisperer’s Online Store. It starts out as a little liquid pouch but when you bend the inner metal disk it starts a chemical reaction that heats this heart up. It starts forming crystals inside the heart that generate heat and cause the heart to firm up a bit. Use the Hot Heart Massager to deliver a hot stone like massage to your partner. The heat last around 30 mins so you don’t have to worry about your hands getting tired. When you are done all you have to do is boil the heart in water to melt the crystals and you can use it again!

The Hot Heart Massager is best paired with either the Massage Oil or the Body Souffle lotion that I carry in the online store. Both of these items are made with organic ingredients and feel amazing on your skin. Each comes in two scents: Lemongrass & Coconut; Fresh Orange & Wild Ginger but neither scent is overwhelming. Using a nice massage lotion or oil makes giving the massage easier but it also make the entire experience more luxurious.

Hot Heart Massager
Materials: Re-usable Liquid Heart
Use with: Massage Oil or Lotion
Clean: Soap and Water (Boil for 10 mins to Re-use)
Rating: ***** 5 out of 5 Stars

Massage Oil
Materials: Organic Extracts and Oil
Scents: Lemongrass & Coconut; Fresh Orange & Wild Ginger
Clean: Soap and Water
Other Uses: Bath Oil or Shower Moisturizer
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Body Souffle
Materials: Organic extracts, olive oil, shea butter, and mango butter.
Scents: Lemongrass & Coconut; Fresh Orange & Wild Ginger
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars


Sweet Snow Body Powder

This snowy white powder is an amazing little treat in the bedroom. Sweet Snow Body Powder is made by a company called Shunga and comes in 2 flavors: Hney and Strawberry Champagne and is Sugar Free.You can use it to give an oil free massage. All you have to do is gently dust the Sweet Snow Powder all over your lover and start giving them a good old-fashioned rub down. The powder makes it easy for your hands to slide over their skin without any nasty friction. But if what you are looking for is a fun game to play this is what I would do with the Sweet Snow Body Powder. Before you head to the bedroom take the Body Powder and dust it on a few select sensual places on your body. Then tell your lover that they need to find all of the areas with their tongue!

Ingredients: aluminum starch octenyl-succinate, Corn starch, Aspartame, may contain Honey, Flavor (Aroma). Sugar Free
Flavors: Honey, Strawberry and Champagne
Size: 8 oz
Includes: Feather application brush
Rating: **** 4 out or 5 Stars


Erotic Items

Even in the best relationships you need to spice things up from time to time. You don’t have to get overly kinky but trying out a new fantasy can have its advantages. For this reason I think it is important to have something in your toy box for a rainy day. If you are tired of having sex the same way every time then it is time to try something a little erotic.

Whip and Tickle

You can play nice or you can play naughty. The choice is yours. One end features feathers for a fun little tickle while the other end has a rubber whip for taking things up a notch or two. Pair this with a soft blindfold and you are in for some real fun.

Materials: Black and White Feathers, Plastic Handle and Rubber Whip
Use With: A Soft Blind Fold
Rating: *** 3 out of 5 Stars

Bondage Tape

Bondage Tape is the coolest stuff . This bondage tape is non adhesive and is made out of vinyl. It sticks to itself but never to you. So you can use it to wrap around your wrists or feet to create a very safe and fun bondage type situation. The best part is that it is completely reusable! It is light weight and easy to pack so the next time you are going out for a sexy romp take this with you and make things even more interesting!

Material: Vinyl Tape, 2” wide x 50’
Water Proof and Easy to Clean
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Under the Bed Restraints

Tying your partner to the bed has never been so easy or so much fun! These Under the Bed Restraints fit under any sized mattress and are completely adjustable. Tuck em under the mattress when not in use and pull em out whenever you want to play. This is a four point system that you can use to make sure your lover isn’t going anywhere. There are four Velcro cuffs included with this system so you aren’t left with any additional purchases you need to make in order to start playing. The Velcro cuffs leave your partner feeling safe as they can easily be removed. With the Under the Bed Restraints there is a lot of fun to be had. Shouldn’t you be enjoying some of it?

Materials: Nylon Webbing, Velcro Cuffs.
Size: (4) 60” Restraint Straps, (1) 60” Under the Bed Connector
Cleaning: Machine Washable
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars


Luxury Items

Every toy box should have at least one luxury item. The kind that makes a girl’s toes curl with delight. While some of these toys cost a pretty penny I know many women who would pay 10 times the price for the pleasure these devices bring into their lives. When you give a girl a toy like this just know she will screaming her thanks to you over and over again!

Rabbit Habit

I'd like to introduce you to the toy that O Magazine calls the "Rolls Royce of sex toys" The Rabbit Habit! This toy will take you to places you have never been before. Don’t believe me? Then perhaps you should check out the “Sex and The City” episode where Charlotte was given one. She locked herself in her room and didn’t come out for days! Why? Because the Rabbit Habit can just be that good!

Here is how it all works. There is a shaft that twirls around in a small circular fashion and inside it are a number of "pearls" that rotate around the shaft to create G-Spot stimulation. Then attached to the base of the shaft there is a bullet vibe that is shaped like a rabbit. The ears are designed to reach up and tickle the clit. This toy has lots of moving parts so it isn't what I would call a silent toy but when it is doing its thing you won't care that it is louder than your other toys. It is designed to blow your mind and it delivers.

Materials: TPR Rubber (phthalate free)
Size: 9" length 1.5" diameter
Vibration: 2 types (Shaft and Clitoral) both have variable speeds
Batteries: 3 AA
Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Soap and water (DO NOT submerge in water and be careful of moving parts)
Lube: Water based lube
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Get into the Rabbit Habit.

The Rabbit toy has been around for a good many years but it didn't really get popular until the infamous "The Turtle and the Hare " episode of Sex and the City. In the episode Charlotte is introduced to a sex toy called, "The Rabbit." What happens next is frankly what happens to many women who enjoy this toy for the first time. She locked herself in her bedroom and didn't want to come out. She simply couldn't stop herself from enjoying all the pleasure the Rabbit was delivering. 

When I first moved to NYC like Charlotte I was frustrated with dating and living single in the big city. So when I saw this episode of Sex and the City like many other women in the country I rushed out to find myself one of these amazing Rabbit toys. I spent what felt like a fortune ($179) on a toy called the iRabbit. It was purple beauty and I rushed right home to take it for a test ride. From sensation stand point the iRabbit was awesome! It delivered on its promise to be an incredible toy. Functionality aside there are a good many aspects of this toy that fell far below my expectations. I wish that I had been the Dildo Whisperer then that I am today. I would have known what pit falls to avoid and the difference between a great quality toy and a very expensive knock off. 

The design of nearly every Rabbit toy out there is the same. There is a shaft that twirls around in a small circular fashion and inside it are a number of "pearls" that rotate around the shaft to create G-Spot stimulation. Then attached to the base of the shaft there is a bullet vibe that is shaped like a rabbit. The ears are designed to reach up and tickle the clit. This toy has lots of moving parts so it isn't what I would call a silent toy but when it is doing its thing you won't care that it is louder then your other toys. It is designed to blow your mind and it delivers. The handle is often the battery compartment and has either a number of buttons or slide fader like controls. The shaft and the rabbit bullet vibe have separate controls for independent use. Run the Rabbit fast and the shaft slow or whatever feels right for you.

         

Not all Rabbits are created equal! Most are made out of jelly rubber and this low quality type of rubber is  just one of the problems I ran into with my first Rabbit. Jelly rubber often is porous which means that after time bacteria can grow inside it. Plus, many of these low quality rubbers can contain chemicals called Pthalates that are thought to be harmful. Then there is the matter of the "pearls" that are inside the shaft of the Rabbit. There are a lot of parts and motors in this toy and that means that it is more prone to breaking. In the case of the "pearls" inside the rabbit they have a tendency to get jammed. Not something you want to have happen while they are rolling across your G-Spot. Then there is the issue of the battery compartment. This is the one thing about my iRabbit that made me the most insane. Due to the fact that the battery compartment is also the handle one would think that the compartment would be designed to stay closed when handled. That was not the case with my iRabbit. Every time I was getting into my grove the damn battery would come off and the batteries would pop out. It made me crazy! Eventually, I just duct taped the damn thing on. 

Luckily, for you my lovely readers there is one company that finally worked out all the kinks in the Rabbit design so you won't run into the same problems I  did. I'd like to introduce you to the toy that O Magazine calls the "Rolls Royce of sex toys." 

The Rabbit Habit

So what makes Rabbit Habit different? Let's start with the materials used in this toy. The Rabbit Habit is made with a rubber called TPR. This rubber doesn't contain of the harmful chemicals that many of the other rabbit toys do. The "pearls"in the Rabbit Habit are designed in a way so they won't jam during use.  This will make your G-Spot much happier!  The controls on the Rabbit Habit are a fader design which means you don't have to get confused on which button to push while you are trying to enjoy yourself. I might have had this problem with the other designs. The Rabbit Habit runs on 3 AA batteries in a compartment that doesn't just pop open when handled. Plus, it comes in my favorite color, Purple! I have tried a dozen or so different rabbit toys over the years and this one has to be the top of the list. Let me put it this way dear readers. The Rabbit Habit is the only rabbit toy still in my personal toy box.

You can check it out for yourself in the "Toys" section of my online toy store.

Materials: TPR Rubber (pthalate free)

Size: 9" length 1.5" diameter

Vibration: 2 types (Shaft and Clitoral) both have variable speeds

Batteries: 3 AA

Cleaning: Afterglow Wipes, Soap and water (DO NOT submerge in water and be careful of moving parts)

Lube: Water based lube

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars