Valentine's Day- Lube up! A gift for your guy. Part V

It is time for me to divulge my fifth final Valentine’s Day gift idea for the man in your life. I spent some time thinking about what should be the final item and I decided on a simple but most important item. If a guy doesn’t have this in his bedside table then he is surely missing out.

5. LUBE!

Lube is one of the most important items needed to make sure a guy has a healthy and active sex life. Guys can use it for jacking off, having sex, playing with toys and is a REQUIREMENT for anal sex! Lube is such a necessary item for sexual activity that the lube industry has taken off. There are entire websites dedicated to all things lube. With so many new brands and types it is easy to get confused. But fear not dear reader, the Dildo Whisperer is here to help you navigate these slippery waters!

Boy Butter (Original) – Use to Jack off!

Boy Butter (Original) is the only Boy Butter lube I currently carry in the Dildo Whisperer Online Store but we carry it in two different size and containers. Even though there are several other Boy Butter Lubes out there for the sake of this entry I am going to focus on the Boy Butter (Original Formula). Boy Butter designs all their lubes to be a cream style lube which is why they are so great to jack off with. This lube is nice and thick and will feel great when paired with your hand or favorite jack off toy. Another great attribute of Boy Butter is that it washes off with a little soap and water. Meaning you don't have to worry about stains on your sheets or a difficult clean up.

Boy Butter (Original) is an oil-based lubricant that is made up from two very gentle ingredients: coconut oil and organic silicone. These ingredients are then homogenized just like real butter and the end result is a long lasting creamy lubricant. This lube is hypoallergenic and is safe on all toys. However, there is one VERY IMPORTANT thing I must tell you about. Because this lube is oil-based it is not compatible with any latex safer sex supplies like latex condoms. So this lube is best used for solo play or sex with a trusted partner.
Active Ingredients: Coconut Oil and organic Silicone
Applications: Masturbation, Sex Toy Play, Anal Sex

Warnings: Do not use with Latex Condoms, NOT latex compatible.

Accessories: Your hand, Male Strokers/ Masturbation Sleeves, Sex toys

Rating: *** 3 out of 5 stars

Love U Water Lubricant- Use for Sex, Masturbation and with Toys.

Water based lubricants have been around for many years. These lubes will keep your skin from facing abrasive friction and will help your bouts of sex last longer. But perhaps the most important thing this lube will do is help protect the delicate skin around your naughty parts. There are a million different types of water based lubes in the market and many of them are very good. But there are a few things you want to make sure you avoid. The two biggest things to avoid in your water based lube are Glycerin and Parabens. These ingredients can lead to some rather unpleasant reactions from your body. (I’ve been there and take it from me it sucks.) To avoid these ingredients it is best to go with a brand you trust. Love U Water Lubricant is made to be gentle on your sexy bits and doesn’t contain any harmful chemicals or ingredients that will make your sexy bits feel not so sexy. Because this lube is water based it can be used with virtually every sex toy made and it is super easy to wash off. This lube will not stain and will not become sticky like a lot of other water based lubes do. If this lube starts to dry out a little bit of water will make it super slippery all over again! Give the Love U Water Lubricant a try and it will Love U as much as you love it.

Active Ingredients: Water, Propanediol, Hydroxypropyl Methylcellulose, Xanthan Gum, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Sodium Benzoate, Patasium Sorbate, Citric Acid.

Applications: Vaginal Sex, Masturbation, Anal Sex, Safe with Most toys

Other Information: Glycerin Free. Paraben Free. Naturally Derived. Vegan. DEA Free.

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars
Love U Silicone Lubricant – Use for Sex and Masturbation or Sex in the Shower

Silicone lubes are no joke. These lubes are designed to be super slick and last really long. They have tons of benefits but they also have a few down sides. Let’s start with what makes these lubes rock. A silicone based lube is going to stay slick until you wash it off. So you don’t have to worry about your lube drying out or wearing off and it will never get sticky. Silicone lubes are also water proof. So you can put in on and have shower or hot tub sex without it washing away. The Love U Silicone Lubricant comes with all of these great qualities plus it is hypoallergenic and will help protect your most delicate skin. This lube is best when used for skin on skin applications like a hand job or sex. However, the Love U Silicone Lubricant has all kinds of uses outside of sex as well! For instance, I have heard of people using the Love U Silicone Lubricant as a shaving cream to help get a nice smooth shave without out skin irritation. I’ve even heard of people using a small amount to help give their hair a little extra shine.

There are a couple of things to keep in mind though when considering a silicone lubricant. These lubes don’t wash off easily. They require a little soap and water so clean up can be a little more difficult. If you have hard wood floors try to avoid spilling this stuff on them because it can make the floor slick with slick on top. (Been there, done that…I almost died! Another story for another day) Last but not least, do not use a silicone lube with a silicone toy. This can result in the silicone lube bonding onto the toy and ruining it. It is a very costly mistake that you do not want to make. So NO silicone lube on silicone toy action please.

The Love U Silicone Lube is everything you want in a good silicone lube and the best part is that you know with this lube you are getting the highest quality lube because it is coming from the Love U brand. Love U is dedicated to making sure non of their products contains harmful chemicals or ingredients so you can be sure your sexy bits are safe. If you want a slick lube that is designed to last look no further then Love U Silicone Lubricant.
Active Ingredients: Cyclopentasiloxane, Dimethicone, Dimethiconol

Applications: Sex, Masturbation, Sex in the Water and use with non-silicone toys.

Other Information: Hypoallergenic. Glycerin Free. Paraben Free. Naturally Derived. Vegan. DEA Free.

Rating: **** 4 out of 5 Stars

Lube is and will always be one of the most basic items that you should have when engaging in any form of sex. If you have never used it before then you are really missing out. If you ever have questions about which lube to use for a specific application please ask the Dildo Whisperer and I will happily help you out. You can find all of the lubes mentioned in this entry at the Dildo Whisperer's Online Store in the "Bath, Body & Wellness" Section.

This concludes my Valentine's Day -Gift For Your Guy series. Get one or all of these products and I guarantee that that man in your life will continue to love you for a very long time. Even if that man is yourself. We all deserve a little something special on Valentine's Day so go on and treat yourself or the man you love today!

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation.

Valentine's Day- Foreplay Series Part II

I promised to do a series of reviews that are dedicating to improving your foreplay and give it a bit of a boost. After all with Valentine's Day approaching you want to be prepared. I have picked out a personal favorite for our next item.

Edible Body Paint

You don't have to be an artist to enjoy this product but it is a great excuse to bust out of your shell. The body is a perfect canvas and you should enjoy every inch of it. Made by SHUNGA this chocolate body paint is perfect for making your foreplay more lively. It is thinner then normal chocolate syrup so it makes a perfect paint and the taste is very good. Think of it as a gourmet Hershey's syrup. All you need is a healthy imagination to enjoy this product and a willing partner. The only thing that could use improvement in this product is the paint brush. It isn't really a brush it is more of a piece of foam that is folded to work like a fountain pen. I didn't like it all that much. I prefer a real paint brush but that is an easy fix. One nice thing about this body paint is that it is a non staining formula so you don't have to worry about ruining your favorite sheets!

One of my favorite sexual memories has to do with two naked girls and some finger paints. I was dating this girl and we didn't know each other very well yet. I just so happened to have some finger paints laying around my apartment and she got this idea that we should paint nude portraits of each other on the wall of my apartment. We both stripped down naked and started painting. When all was said and done there were the two amazing paintings on my wall but more importantly we had gotten much closer. After all there was a lot of physical touching that took place as we tried to get the proper "proportions" for our paintings. I think I covered every inch of her body 2 or three times over as I was painting. We had lots of laughs that night and after we showered we ended up having really great sex. It was just one of those nights you never forget and sometimes they come out of the most unexpected places.

I think it is time that you start creating some memories like mine that you will never forget. Create a piece of art or just paint a love poem that you can lick off later. Either way you will have a sweet treat with the Shunga Edible Body Paint. You can fine it in the "Bath, Body and Wellness" section of my online store.

Ingredients: Sugar (Sucrose), Water (Aqua), Cocoa powder (Theobroma cacao), Sodium citrate, Salt (Sodium chloride), Caramel colour (Caramel), Potassium sorbate, N&A flavour (Aroma), Vanillin, Citric acid, FDC Yellow 5 (Tartrazine) (CI 19140).
Flavors: Chocolate
Size: 3.5 oz
Includes: Foam Brush
Rating: *** 3 out of 5 Stars

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at romaine@eatromaine.com. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know. The Dildo Whisperer is also available for Private Consultations. Simply send an email to romaine@eatromaine.com to request a one on one conversation. 

The Valentine's Day Count Down.

Cupid is about to draw back his bow for many a lover in the coming weeks and I am here to help you be prepared. Anyone that has ever had a lover at Valentine's Day knows it can be very stressful picking out the perfect gift for your loved one. Over the course of the next couple of weeks I am going to use the dildo whisperer blog to come up with a few fun and exciting gift ideas. However, if there is an item from my online store that you would like me to get into more detail about let me know and I will write about it.

For this entry I am going to focus on the first in a series sexy items that can help give your foreplay a boost and allow for some exciting adventures in the bedroom. You can find this item in the "Bath, Body and Wellness" section of my online store.

Sweet Snow Body Powder

This snowy white powder is an amazing little treat in the bedroom. Let me start by telling you about this item and then I will tell you how I think it should be used. Sweet Snow Body Powder is made by a company called Shunga and all of their products are really well made. This body powder comes in 2 flavors: honey and Strawberry Champagne and is Sugar Free. I have only tried the honey flavor as of this posting but I liked it a lot. The flavor was very light and didn't overwhelm me at all. In fact, the honey flavor kind of reminded me of the flavor of those candy cigarettes I used to enjoy as a child. One of the great things about this body powder is that it is very delicate in nature so you barely notice it is there and it never gets sticky. So you don't have to worry about any of the mess that you would get with some of the edible body oils. The Sweet Snow Body Powder contains cornstarch which is perfect as it will maintain freshness and will fend off any wetness in areas around the breasts and inner thighs. Once applied it is barely visible to the eye which has many benefits.

Here's how I would use this item. You can use it to give an oil free massage. All you have to do is gently dust the Sweet Snow Powder all over your lover and start giving them a good old-fashioned rub down. The powder makes it easy for your hands to slide over their skin without any nasty friction. 

But if  what you are looking for is a fun game to play this is what I would do with the Sweet Snow Body Powder. Before you head to the bedroom take the Body Powder and dust it on a few select sensual places on your body. Then tell your lover that they need to find all of the areas with their tongue! To make it even more fun you can tell them the number of places you placed it (but always make sure to add one to that number so they are left searching). This is one white lie everyone will enjoy!

The Sweet Snow Body Powder also comes with a nice feather brush that you can use to apply the powder. You can put it on and have your lover lick it off. You can use the feathers for some fun sensation play. Just use your imagination and have fun!

Ingredients: aluminum starch octenyl-succinate, Corn starch, Aspartame, may contain Honey, Flavor (Aroma). Sugar Free

Flavors: Honey, Strawberry and Champagne

Size: 8 oz

Includes: Feather application brush

Rating: **** 4 out or 5 Stars